Deep Things to Say to Your Boyfriend Over Text: 24 Ideas (2024)

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1“You’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me.”

2“I love the thought of growing old with you.”

3“I’ve found my person, at last. It’s you.”

4“I didn’t know it was possible to love someone this much.”

5“Life didn’t make sense until I met you.”

6“I can’t believe how lucky I am to have found you.”

7“I wish I could hold you in my arms and never let go.”

8“I can tell you anything.”

9“Words can’t express the love I feel for you.”

10“I can’t wait to make even more memories with you.”

11“I love the way you love me.”

12“I’m so comfortable with you.”

13“I can’t imagine my life without you in it.”

14“Everything you do makes me fall more in love with you.”

15“You still give me butterflies, even after all this time.”

16“You make me a better person.”

17“You’re my lover and my best friend.”

18“You are the most important person in my life, now and always.”

19“What’s your love language?”

20“You’re my favorite person to do everything with.”

21“There is no one more perfect for me than you.”

22“I’ve realized that I think about you more than anything else.”

23“You’ve made me see the world in a whole new way.”

24“I miss you when you aren’t with me.”

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Whether you spend every day with your boyfriend or are in a long-distance relationship, there are some things you can’t express verbally. Texting is a great way to show your boyfriend how much he means to you and make him feel like the most special guy in the world. If you’re at a loss for words, keep reading: we’ve compiled a list of deep, romantic texts to send your boyfriend to let him know how much you care.

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  • Let him know you’re thankful for everything he’s done for you and for the love you share.
  • Show him you’re in this relationship for the long haul by referencing your future together.
  • Convey how much you admire him and let him know you’re your best self around him.

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“You’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me.”

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  1. "I’m so thankful for everything you’ve given me. Your kindness, your creativity, your love—I wouldn’t trade these things for anything.”

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“I love the thought of growing old with you.”

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  1. “I want to spend the rest of my life by your side. I dream of us as grandparents, sitting on the front porch in rocking chairs, and we’re still crazy in love. Babe, I’m in this relationship for the long haul. For better or for worse, ‘til death do us part, come what may.”

  1. “You’re my soulmate, the one I've been looking for my whole life. My stomach does flip-flops when I look at you across the room and realize—you’re my person. The love I’ve spent so long waiting for has finally arrived.”[1]

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“I didn’t know it was possible to love someone this much.”

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  1. “I’ve never experienced love like this before. Our romance is a new adventure, one I wasn’t prepared for and one I wouldn’t give up for anything.”

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“Life didn’t make sense until I met you.”

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  1. “I didn’t know what love really was. I was purposeless, unmoored, and then I met you! Life has meaning now, and hope, and love.”

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“I can’t believe how lucky I am to have found you.”

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  1. “What did I do to deserve your love? I never felt like I was good enough for anything or anyone, but then the universe gave me you.”

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“I wish I could hold you in my arms and never let go.”

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  1. “I feel so safe when we’re together. Sometimes I think if I can’t hug or kiss you, I’ll die. But when we touch, I feel calm, like everything will be OK.”[2]

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“I can tell you anything.”

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  1. “I’ve never trusted anyone as much as I trust you. I can share my darkest secrets, the most secretive parts of me, and you’ll understand. You have no idea how much I value the freedom to just…be myself.”

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“Words can’t express the love I feel for you.”

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  1. “Text is inadequate, but it’s all I’ve got to tell you how much I adore you. Our love is that magical sort of love that can’t be fully explained using words. But I’ll never stop trying to express my love to you anyway.”

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“I can’t wait to make even more memories with you.”

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  1. “I cherish the time we’ve spent together. I never want to have another memory without you in it. The times I’ve spent with you have been the happiest of my life.”

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“I love the way you love me.”

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  1. “You treat me better than any guy has ever treated me. You know just what to say and just what to do to make me fall in love with you over and over again. I love you, and I see and appreciate everything you do for me.”

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“I’m so comfortable with you.”

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  1. “I’ve never felt so at home in a relationship before. Being with you just feels…natural. Like the way love’s meant to feel. A warm fireplace, a soft blanket.”

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“I can’t imagine my life without you in it.”

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  1. “I could never go back to a time before I knew you. It feels like you’ve always been a part of my life, somehow. We’ve always been meant for each other.”

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“Everything you do makes me fall more in love with you.”

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  1. “Even the little things you do make my heart swell with love. Whether you’re brushing your teeth or furrowing your brow over a book, I adore you, all the time, no matter what you’re doing.”

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“You still give me butterflies, even after all this time.”

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  1. “Our honeymoon phase will never end. We’ve been together for a long time now, but it still feels like the very first date. My heart beats fast whenever you look in my direction. I adore you.”[3]

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“You make me a better person.”

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  1. “I’m my best self when I’m with you. I feel entirely unworthy of your love, and yet I feel like a better person around you. You make me want to be kinder to everyone, more loving, more generous. Just like you.”

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“You’re my lover and my best friend.”

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  1. “We’ve got the best of both worlds: friendship and romance. You’re my confidant, my partner in crime, the person I go to for help and to share my day with. You’re also the apple of my eye, my one true love. I never knew I could find such amazing friendship and romance in the same person.”

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“You are the most important person in my life, now and always.”

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  1. “You are my number-one priority. I’ll drop anything to be with you, my love, and I’ll do anything for you. Nothing comes before you.”

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“What’s your love language?”

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  1. “I want to know how to love you best, because you deserve the best. Do you like to receive gifts, physical touch, or words of affirmation? Or maybe quality time, or acts of service?”[4]

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“You’re my favorite person to do everything with.”

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  1. “Nobody else compares. We laugh together nonstop, and I know you always have my back in any situation, for better or worse. You’re my travel buddy and the person I run everyday errands with. No matter the circ*mstances, you bring my life fun and excitement and meaning.”

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“There is no one more perfect for me than you.”

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  1. “We’re a match made in heaven. Romeo and Juliet weren’t more in sync than we are. The universe designed you for me and me for you, and now it’s finally brought us together.”

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“I’ve realized that I think about you more than anything else.”

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  1. “You’re in my every thought. I lose focus of my work, I trail off mid-sentence in conversations. Even the most fun moments of my day are interrupted by thoughts of you, what you’re doing, how you’re feeling, and when I’ll see you again.”

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“You’ve made me see the world in a whole new way.”

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  1. “I value your perspective so much. Your view of the world has completely changed how I approach my day-to-day reality. I see life in so much more color than I used to.”

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“I miss you when you aren’t with me.”

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  1. “Any day you’re not with me is a bad day. I could be having the time of my life, but it would feel as if I’m missing a limb. You’re my lost arm, my phantom leg. Be by my side.”

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    Make sure that all of your communication comes from a place of love! Focus on really sharing common ground and figuring out what you want to achieve. How can you be kind and gentle and share your feelings and needs without sounding controlling? Try to have a better understanding of yourself, and always listen to your partner to understand them. Once you establish a healthy connection of that and you're not resorting to aggression or anger, it will be easier to open up.

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      I choose you every day, and I'm so lucky you choose me, too. I didn't know what marrying your best friend meant until I met you. You're my first thought every morning and my last thought before I go to sleep. You inspire a love in me that I never knew was possible.

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